Expressing GratitudeSheila GrosdidierSCP
As we bustle through the holiday season, we may remember to give thanks to our family and friends, but what about our coworkers and team members? Don’t forget your team! We spend about 1/3 of our daily lives with our coworkers; no doubt there are many situations that warrant genuine appreciation and gratitude.
Sometimes, we don’t convey our true gratitude or appreciation with a mumbled ‘thanks’ as we turn on our heels and rush on to our next pressing task. So how is our appreciation best expressed? Ask the deserving team member to step aside when the two of you have a quiet moment that isn’t rushed. Be direct and specific, thank them for what they have done and let them know you appreciate not only what they did, but that you appreciate them. If you don’t have the opportunity to speak directly with the team member, a hand written note or card can be another heartfelt way to let someone know how sincerely you appreciate them.
And if you want to be sure that your team member truly feels your appreciation, you need to express it to them in a way that is meaningful - to them. While one person might like a public acknowledgment during a meeting and an enthusiastic high five – another might like a thoughtful note that they can reread and savor. This month we are offering a free printable that you can use to assess your team members’ favorite ways to be remembered and thanked. It’s called a Motivational Assessment – and while we didn’t invent this concept, we’ve customized this particular questionnaire to work well in veterinary practices. It’s a proven way to discover the “language” your co-workers speak. You might be surprised what you learn about gratitude and the many ways it can be shown and felt.
By expressing gratitude with your coworkers you will build a more trusting and open work environment, a place where everyone can thrive.